Balancing Motherhood, Yoga and Writing

It turns out that the Pibler’s problem is a very acute teething phase Last night he woke up every ten minutes (or at least that’s what it seemed like), whimpering in pain and unable to get comfortable. It felt like the night of everlasting hell. Sounds exaggerated maybe, but at the time…I just kept wondering when I was going to get a chance to SLEEP.

Things look brighter today as, seeing him gnawing on his hand, I realised what ails him and have sent his dad off to get a suitable remedy. I hope something helps! Today he has been stuck to my side like a limpet and would only play while sitting on my lap. This morning I took him to a good toddler music group which we sometimes attend, and he seemed to find that a welcome distraction.

I managed to finally get around to writing that email to BBC Radio 4 - about why I think the discussion on the government’s proposed cuts to mothers’ benefits should include a consideration of the effects of childcare on young children. It’s amazing to me how few people are informed of this - or even aware that a debate exists. I was chatting to a European mother at the Breastfeeding Drop-in on Tuesday, who is currently researching nurseries for her 17-month-old, and when I mentioned child-minders she had never even considered that. It seems that ‘nurseries’ or daycare are the default option for most people, and certainly the form of childcare most used by all my mom friends. Yet, there is evidence to show it increases aggression in children and causes long-term emotional and social ill effects, amongst other things.

The little one and his dad have gone out to go and get a new flash for the camera. Today’s usually my afternoon to go out, but I feel I need a nap after last night’s action. I hope tonight is better. Off to bed I go now!